Tag: hope

It was a Monday, I remember. Crisp and cool and cloudy. The gloomy sky casted a layer of darkness upon the house, but the clouds would later part to reveal a glorious winter day. Weather-wise, at least.

I started my morning with peanut butter and banana oatmeal, a meal notorious for making my POTS worse. It’s because of the carbs and unexplainable food sensitivities, but a year ago, we didn’t know this yet. We only knew that it increased my symptoms and we wanted all my various symptoms present for testing that Monday afternoon. So, breakfast was planned accordingly.

The directions said to shower before the appointment, so naturally, I obeyed. Doctor’s orders. I threw on baggy clothes as per requested, and when I was done, I crawled to the living room couch, where I blocked out the world with a Netflix documentary. Well, I tried to anyway but quickly failed as my eyes kept searching for the clock.

At noon, I was scheduled for autonomic testing. A medical technician in a room worlds away would conduct four series of tests to observe my autonomic nervous system. These tests would measure my nervous system’s ability to regulate sweating, blood pressure, and heart rate, hooking me up to various wires while strapped down to a Frankenstein-like table. All the equipment scared me, no doubt, but to continue to live without answers scared me even more.

Eleven o’clock came quick and my mother shepherded me to the car. When I made it to the front seat, I reclined to a supine position, my body’s favorite position, and turned the AC down as low as it could possibly go. My mother, who needs a jacket during August in Texas, zipped up her jacket and endured. She’s selfless like that, and I’m forever grateful for it. 

When I arrived at the neurologist’s office, I seemed to be the only one who was ready. A four month wait will do that to you, so I watched office staff hurry about from a cushioned chair in the waiting room. It’s funny really, waiting four months for a doctor’s appointment only to sit in a room designed for more waiting. That’s perhaps the hardest part of any diagnosis journey, waiting in the wreckage of an old life, loved and lost.

I wasn’t necessarily hoping for a diagnosis, except at this point, I pretty much was. It was more so that I was tired of wasting away in the Land of the Unexplained. While waiting on referrals and medical testing that was apparently in high demand, my sporty build had left me as my unknown condition worsened. As my inability to tolerate daily life grew, I felt like a shell of my old self, a vibrant girl withering away. Once, while watching television, I looked down and couldn’t recognize my legs. The strength I’d built up from ten years of swimming had gradually waned away, and to my horror, my legs now resembled twigs.

Those days, I was always so close to breaking. One harsh gust of wind, and–snap.

Eventually, the nurse called me back, taking my vitals before wiring me up. When I stepped on the scale, I noticed I’d lost ten pounds and in a weird way, I felt almost relieved. It was strangely comforting knowing some of my loss could be documented, not only my loss of weight but of my vibrancy, strength, and energy too. The numbers would get written down, saved forever in my medical chart, serving as some kind of evidence that I was no longer all I used to be, that I had lost some of myself in this lengthy, cumbersome journey.

That’s perhaps the hardest part of any diagnosis journey, waiting in the wreckage of an old life, loved and lost.

As the testing began, I felt thumping so strong it seemed to shake me. I chalked it up to likely footsteps of a busy nurse out in the hallway, but after several minutes I wondered whether the thumping was coming from somewhere within. My heart, it seemed, was revolting. Its pounding was almost painful.

Lying there on the medical table, I braced myself for what was to come. The autonomic testing would conclude with a tilt-table test, the most brutal test out of the four. From my supine position, the table would be raised to simulate standing, and over the span of ten minutes my heart rate, blood pressure, and symptoms would be recorded, unless, the technician explained, I fainted. If I fainted, the test would be stopped prematurely. I didn’t know which outcome to hope for.

For an average, healthy person, a tilt-table test is no big deal. Their body adjusts to the pull of gravity by constricting blood vessels in the legs, properly sending blood back to the brain with only a marginal increase in heart rate. For a person with POTS however, this test is borderline torture.

Not even a minute into the test, I began to struggle against gravity. Sweating, shaking, unable to breathe, I squirmed beneath the table’s restraints as each of my symptoms were recorded by the technician. I called them out, plainly, the way he asked me to. “Dizzy. Heart palpitations. Shortness of breath. Fatigue.” Later, I would learn, my heart rate was soaring at 150 bpm.

Strapped down to the table, there was nothing to hold onto. I had to find something internally instead, some invisible inner railing that would support me and the weight of that afternoon. As my heart hammered on, I began to translate each pulse; every beat of my heart was my body battling to keep me conscious and upright. For a moment, I felt thankful. I have never felt my body fight for me the way it did that day.

Around minute five, in a moment I can only describe as dreamlike, I looked out to the wall I was now facing, only it wasn’t a wall. It was a window. It had taken five minutes before I realized that in the raising of the tilt-table to a steep 70 degrees, I was now directly facing a giant, glorious window. Before me, there was a golden, shimmering tree, and its leaves shook in the strong wind like confetti for a celebration. For a brief second, it looked as if the leaves were waving at me. From the depths of rock bottom, I said a silent hello. 

Staring at that gold tree, a sense of calm swept over me. In the cold, clammy doctor’s office, I found a trace of light and beauty. It was an unthinkable event, unnatural even. And for the rest of my life, I will never forget the way that tree muted my screaming heart. It gave me a minute of peace in a moment of hell and even still, a year later, trees everywhere do the same.

We were told the testing would take about two hours, but in the end, it was closer to four. Walking into that office, I had little left other than slivers of hope and sanity, but walking out, I carried pamphlets and at long last, a diagnosis. After two years of living in utter fear and confusion, I finally had a name to my bizarre collection of symptoms: Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome.

Not only did my diagnosis give validation to my invisible illness, but with it came a plethora of resources that were essential in my recovery. I now had access to physical therapists, dietitians, school accommodations, and more. I also now had an explanation for when people asked me, “What’s wrong?” While for some, a diagnosis feels like the ending of a life, for me it was more like a beginning, a chance to one day live again. 

This time last year, I was strapped down to a medical table with wires and electrodes glued to my skin. It was yet another diagnostic test that would be my last in a soul-sucking series, and I was scrambling to hold onto my sense of self within the exhaustion and medical machines. It’s been a year now of officially living with POTS and I’m delighted to report I’m doing much better now. When I think about how I feel towards my progress and recovery, “gratitude” doesn’t even begin to cover it; it is relief at a visceral level, an infinite stream of thank you thank you thank you. 

Last Monday, I drove up to the pond near my house. I like to go there a lot and, well, look at trees… On my way there, I passed my neighbors who were collecting their mail at the mailbox. The two young girls, maybe six and eight years old, wore the kind of matching, neon jackets that only young children can pull off. They jumped up and down with glee, ecstatic about a simple errand shared with their mom. It was a moment that moved me to tears, but not in the way you’d think. 

For a split second, I imagined them all grown up and strapped down to a medical table. Unable to hide my horror at the thought, tears poured down my cheeks as I (dangerously) unraveled behind the wheel. So clearly, I could see them hooked up to wires, awaiting a tilt-table test in all-consuming fear. I pictured their mom fidgeting out in the waiting room, wondering how she and her baby girl wound up in a neurologist’s office on a sunny Monday afternoon.

It’s possible those girls might get POTS one day, too. I hope to God they never do.

But if they do confront fates similar to mine, I would want them to know it gets better. It gets a whole lot better, even when it’s still hard. I would want them to know they’ll never believe how strong they will become, or how much joy can be found in the simplest, smallest things. I would want them to know this illness will change them in every possible way, and although they might resent that for a little while, eventually they’ll learn it also sets them free. More than anything, I’d want them to know about hope. How it saved my life and has the power to save theirs too.

If I could, I would tell all this to the version of myself strapped to that tilt-table, too. I’d kneel down to the side of that Frankenstein table, holding her hand through all she is about to endure.

In another world, I do.